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You can also follow along on Facebook and Instagram. If you have a relationship/dating question I can help answer, you can send me your letters at [email protected] (be sure to read these guidelines first). Thanks for visiting! New readers, welcome to Dear Wendy, a relationship advice blog. If you don’t find the info you need in this column, please visit the Dear Wendy archives or the forums (you can even start your own thread), or submit a question for advice. I have been dating this great guy for a few months and everything seems good so far. I really like him and enjoy our time together but some stuff has happened in the last few weeks and it’s freaking me out.

Last weekend when I slept over at his place we had sex and then at some point I fell asleep after we had finished. Well, I woke up a while later because he was having sex with me. I freaked out and told him to get away from me. He told me he was really sorry and he thought I had been awake. The next morning he brought it up and told me again how sorry he was and that he did not know I was asleep as I was talking to him. It freaked me out but I thought his apology was honest and I believed he thought I was awake. It still bugged me but I decided to let it go; he seemed like he felt bad.

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Well, this weekend I slept over again and we had sex and went to sleep. Then I woke up in the middle of the night because the bed was shaking and he was actually masturbating. I kinda moved around and turned over. He stopped what he was doing right away and put his hand on me, in a sweet way. He thought I was still asleep I am sure. Anyway he did not do anything else … and we just slept. While I don’t actually mind the masturbating, the combination of the two events while I am sleeping are making me worry.

It’s a pretty new relationship and I’ve never thought of something like this before. Anyone have any suggestions? I already know I should talk to him about this; I just wonder if anyone has comments or has dealt with this before I dive into that conversation. I have looked up the sex while I was sleeping online and a lot of stuff out their suggests it’s sexual abuse, or even rape. I don’t agree with this but it did scare the hell out of me when it happened.

I am in my late 2. I find nothing else about his behavior to be abusive at all.

He is caring and sweet, very nice…. Sleep Issues. Be honest with your boyfriend that his recent behavior — the combination of sexing you up while you were asleep and then masturbating next to you a few days later while you were asleep again — creeps you out. Let him know that while you believe his story about thinking you were awake the first time, you find it odd that instead of going out of his way to foster nocturnal comfort and trust, he decided to jerk off in bed right next to you while you slept. Something is off here. Wouldn’t he be a little embarrassed about his behavior after the first incident? Wouldn’t he want you to feel comfortable in his presence? This strikes me as a control thing.

If it were just the sex- while- sleeping bit, that’s weird enough; but as you said, the combination of these two things in quick succession is bizarre and doesn’t bode well for him or your relationship. If it were I, I wouldn’t share a bed with him again until I felt that some trust had been re- established in the relationship. Depending on my feelings for the guy, I might even dump him and MOA now.

But you have several months invested and maybe you feel strongly enough for him to give him another chance. Still, consider these acts two red flags and proceed with caution. I’d definitely implement a “three strikes and you’re out rule” for the immediate future. If he pulls anything weird again over the next few weeks, don’t give him another chance.*If you have a relationship/dating question I can help answer, send me your letters at [email protected] and be sure to follow me on Twitter and ‘like’ me on Facebook.

Earthquake- proof bed 'swallows' you when it senses the ground shaking: Mechanism drops your mattress into a sealed box full of supplies. If you live in an earthquake hotspot you may be able to sleep a little sounder, thanks to concept designs for an earthquake- proof bed. Watch Mountain Men Online Full Movie there.

An animated video showcases a series of designs for a bed that protects its slumbering occupants during a quake - but it may not be the bed of choice for the claustrophobic. Resembling a cross between a strong box and a Venus flytrap, the mattress drops into a chamber covered with a protective lid when sensors feel the ground shaking. Scroll down for video A video showcases a series of designs for a bed that protects sleepers during an quake - but it may not be the bed of choice for the claustrophobic. Resembling a cross between a strong box and a Venus flytrap, the mattress drops into a chamber covered with a hard cover when sensors feel the ground shaking (animated)The earthquake- proof bed is designed to seal in the sleeper in the event of a serious quake (pictured). When tremors start, the mattress drops inside the bed's frame The occupant inside would then wait out the quake in the strong box until help arrived, or the quake subsided. HOW THE EARTHQUAKE- PROOF BEDS WOULD WORK Chinese inventor Wang Wenxi was granted a patent for the initial quake- proof bed in 2.

The original design shows the bed consisting of a large metallic box with a mattress on top. When the earthquake hits, this mattress is seen being dropped by a hinged mechanism, while the lid of the box closes above it, sealing the occupant inside. The second design, instead, drops the user through what resembles a trap door. The hinge is in the centre of the bed, rather than the side, so the mattress drops flat to the bottom of the box, rather than tipping the sleeper out. Chinese inventor Wang Wenxi was granted a patent for the initial quake- proof bed in 2.

However, the precise details and specifications of each design are lacking and Mail. Online has contacted the video maker for more information. It is assumed that the box can be opened from the inside, as well as the outside. There are also no details about where the exit would be, in the event of a large piece of debris landing on the lid and locking it shut. The original 2. When the earthquake hits, this mattress is seen being dropped by a hinged mechanism, while the lid of the box closes above it, sealing the occupant inside. The second design, instead, drops the user through what resembles a trap door. The hinge is in the centre of the bed, rather than the side, so the mattress drops flat to the bottom of the box, rather than tipping the sleeper out. In the event of an earthquake the mattress (left) drops inside the bed frame and a protective hard cover (right) seals the person inside to protect them from falling debris.

The animation shows that during a serious earthquake, the bed would be able to protect people by sealing them in a strong box with supplies until help arrives. Stock footage of a quake is pictured. The animation shows that the beds would even have space for supplies, including water, food, medical kits and even tools, but how you might access any of this is unclear. There is no word yet on whether any of the designs will make it past the initial concept phase, or when you might be able to buy one. But judging by their size and sturdy construction, you may need to enlist the help of a few friends to help you get them up the stairs. Elsewhere, the designs show that the beds would also have space for supplies, including water, food, medical kits and even tools, but how you might access any of this is unclear (animated) Supplies would be stored underneath the bed (pictured). The animation shows enough space for water, food, medical supplies and even gas masks and canisters of oxygen.

EARTHQUAKES IN CHINAScientists use seismometers (pictured) to measure tremors. But one of the first devices was invented in China almost 2. China has a long history with earthquakes, so it’s to be expected that the thoughts of some of its citizens, such as Wang Wenxi, dwell on protective measures. The region has been hit by a number of significant quakes in its long history. In recent years, one of the biggest quakes to hit China was in 2. The enormous country straddles two giant colliding tectonic plates – the Indian and the Eurasian plates.

As these two masses shift under the earth they release massive amounts energy in the form of seismic tremors - from small shakes to devastating earthquakes. One of the very first devices to detect tremors is was created in China nearly 2,0. Invented in AD 1. Zhang Heng, it incorporated a large bronze urn with ornamental dragons on its sides. When the pot was disturbed by tremors from underground, the dragons’ mouths opened, releasing a ball into a pot below, indicating the direction the tremor came from.